Healthy Reasonable Expectations Positively Impact a Child!!!

Healthy Reasonable Expectations Positively Impact a Child! A child will almost always fulfill the HEALTHY GODLY EXPECTATIONS a Parent has for them.

A Parent EXPECTING a child to Treat Others with Kindness, be a Good Decision-Maker, Act Responsible, be a Hard Worker, and Have a Positive Attitude Will Guide a Child in that Direction!

HAVING HEALTHY EXPECTATIONS FOR A CHILD IS AN ESSENTIAL PARENTING GOAL!

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SARCASM DESTROYS A CHILD'S SELF-WORTH!!!

SARCASM DESTROYS a CHILD’S SELF-WORTH and HURTS a Parent-Child Relationship!

The Greek word for SARCASM means “TEARING OF FLESH.” SARCASM is MASKED ANGER, an EMOTIONAL SLAP to a CHILD’S FACE, and makes a CHILD FEEL STUPID!

A PARENT and SPOUSES should ELIMINATE NEGATIVE SARCASM!!!

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PRAISE PUBLICLY, CORRECT PRIVATELY!!!

The cliché’ is true, “PRAISE PUBLICLY, Correct Privately.”

It is easy to be a faultfinder BUT BE A GOODFINDER and BUILD A CHILD’S SELF-CONFIDENCE and SELF-WORTH with PRAISE!

A PARENT can PRAISE and COMPLIMENT in PRIVATE and PUBLIC but must ONLY CORRECT IN PRIVATE!

BE A GOODFINDER WITH OTHERS!!!

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PRAISE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ASPECT OF PARENTING!

MISTAKENLY, many LOVING PARENTS believe that CORRECTION and CRITICISM leads to a responsible child. NOT TRUE!!!

PRAISE and COMPLIMENTS are the MOST IMPORTANT ASPECT OF PARENTING!!!

COMPLIMENTS are POWERFUL and create ENERGY WITHIN A CHILD to be a TERRIFIC DECISION-MAKER and be even MORE CONFIDENT and RESPONSIBLE!

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PARENTS HELP YOUR CHILD BECOME A GREAT DECISION-MAKER!!!

PARENTS HELP YOUR CHILD BECOME A GREAT DECISION-MAKER!!! From an early age, an EFFECTIVE PARENT helps a child learn to MAKE GOOD DECISIONS through choices.

Gradually allow a child to make more decisions as they become older because that produces a CONFIDENT, RESPONSIBLE PERSON!

A more detailed explanation is given in the Two-Time National Award-Winning book, SIMPLE HABITS FOR EFFECTIVE PARENTING.

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2021 Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

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5 FANTASTIC GUIDELINES FOR CRITICAL TALKS!!!

There are 5 FANTASTIC GUIDELINES FOR CRITICAL TALKS in PARENTING and MARRIAGE!!!

Whenever a PARENT (Couple) discusses an IMPORTNAT TOPIC with a CHILD implement 5 GUIDELINES:

1) Discuss after 9:00am & before 7:00pm

2) Always be seated

3) Avoid asking “WHY” instead ask WHAT ARE YOUR REASONS?

4) Speak SLOW & LOW (volume)

5) Speak the truth in love.

A more detailed explanation is given in the 2021 Two-Time National Award-Winning book, SIMPLE HABITS FOR EFFECTIVE PARENTING.

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BE A CONFIDENT, EFFECTIVE PARENT!!!

BE A CONFIDENT, EFFECTIVE PARENT!!! The Two-Time National Award-Winning book, SIMPLE HABITS FOR EFFECTIVE PARENTING, is an inspiring read for every Christian parent SEEKING AN EASY-TO-UNDERSTAND APPROACH TO RAISING A CHILD.

This COMPREHENSIVE PRACTICAL RESOURCE offers expert Christian advice on how to develop a parenting vision, effectively guide a child, strengthen a parent-child relationship, apply loving discipline, teach successful life skills, boost a child’s self-confidence, inspire positive academic effort, and help a child grow in their faith in Jesus. 

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2021 Two-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Effective Parenting, available at: Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse  Focus on the Family   Amazon

2020 Three-Time National Award-Winning book, Simple Habits for Marital Happiness, available at:  Christian Book   Crosslink Publishing  ConcordiaPublishingHouse   Focus on the Family   Amazon

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PARENTS DON’T GET DEFENSIVE WITH “I DON’T LIKE YOU”!!!

PARENTS DON’T GET DEFENSIVE WITH “I DON’T LIKE YOU”!!! A parent can easily overreact when they hear that statement.

Instead of overreacting say, “WE LOVE EACH OTHER. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF I SPOKE TO YOU THAT WAY?”

After a calm period, ASK for an APOLOGY and GUIDE the child toward a better decision with QUESTIONS!

DON’T fly off the handle because I DON’T LIKE YOU is not life or death!!!

A more detailed explanation is given in the 2021 Two-Time National Award-Winning book, SIMPLE HABITS FOR EFFECTIVE PARENTING.

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TIME-OUT WITH AN APOLOGY AND OBEDIENCE STATEMENT!

Time-out is probably the most used parenting tool. Rather than use the minute-per-age rule, with a TIME-OUT I believe an APOLOGY and OBEDIENCE STATEMENT is ABSOLUTELY BEST! 1st, a child APOLOGIZES, “I am sorry I did not listen. WILL YOU PLEASE FORGIVE ME?” 2nd, “I am ready to obey and make a better decision.” Then, a child may leave time-out!

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ASK A CHILD POLITELY, “WILL YOU PLEASE . . .”

ASK A CHILD POLITELY, “WILL YOU PLEASE . . .” with most requests for OBEDIENCE. One EFFECTIVE WAY to provide a decision-making opportunity for a child is to ask WILL YOU PLEASE . . . SENTENCES ARE THE EXCEPTION because sentences feel DEMANDING to a child. WILL YOU PLEASE increases the likelihood of compliance and OBEDIENCE from a child because he or she is MAKING THEIR OWN DECISION rather than being told what to do. A Parenting Goal is to help a child become an EXCELLENT DECION-MAKER!!!

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